From Dishwasher to Dad
The dishwasher stopped working, but I
fixed it. That was the extent of today’s excitement. I am great with plumbing.
I repair running toilets, leaky faucets, plugged-up drains, dishwashers with
error messages. My husband and I have an unspoken agreement: water-related and
I fix it; electrical and he fixes it. Plumbing makes sense to me, but
electricity is like magic—a helpful ghost that powers my coffee maker. I do not
understand its ways.
Under the electrical heading falls all
technology, too. I have put in way too many frantic calls to “tech support”
while my husband is at work. “Honey! There’s no internet!” or “Lover! The
TV! It is not doing what I want it to be doing!” I go through all the reboot
steps before I call. When it still doesn’t work, I get pissed. Again, I sound
like my father, complete with the cursing, “All I want to fucking do is watch a
goddamn tv show! Jesus Christ!”
My father believed in a vengeful god, and
that god was called the Get Goldman Office. Whenever my father felt he had been
transgressed upon, he would rail, “The Get Goldman Office is at it again!”
Every pothole in the road was placed there by the Get Goldman Office. Next time
you hit one, blame my dad; it was meant for him. Lost your keys? The GGO was
hiding them just to mess with you. Internet down? The GGO was trying to ruin
your day. (Sorry, Judy!) All of life’s random inconveniences were the
orchestration of the Get Goldman Office. (I imagine a heavenly kind of King
Arthur’s round table of hippies, yuppies, senior citizens, small children and
feminists (all groups my father despised), sitting in high-backed chairs,
looking down and coming up with ideal ways to torture him. “Let’s have the cat
puke on the stairs so he steps in it on his way down in the morning!”)
While I doubt my father would blame the
GGO for the Coronavirus, I’ve been wondering what he’d make of all this
pandemic stuff. He would have been most distressed by the closing of his
favorite watering holes and steak houses. I can see him rolling his eyes
about the term “social distancing”, saying something like, “What are they going
on about? The only person I let get close to me is my wife.” He would have
found delight in the Red Sox’s season getting canceled. He would have called to
check on me and said, “Daughter Number Three! What’s been going on in the
‘port?” He would have told me to stay safe and wash my hands, but with swearing
and jokes, and he would have reminded me to keep beer in the fridge and not go
to any parties. My dad was difficult and our relationship
complicated, but lately I find myself missing him.
The GGO explains so much, thank you. Especially the cat puke on the steps. I could never figure out what I did to deserve that one.
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